Leaving the room with a new sense of adventure, we planted ourselves at the bar beside the patio area and ordered some drinks. The gentle banter around the bar, along with the drinks, relaxed us very quickly but we were still a little shy and kept to ourselves. Early days...
Later that evening after several more drinks we decided to brave the jacuzzi deck again. The resort seemed like a different place from the nerves of earlier, and we were both buzzing with excitement. Yes, i think the alcohol helped :-)
It was quieter up there now, most people had probably left to get changed for dinner. We took stools as before on the dry side and immediately got chatting to a lovely couple from Belgium (turned out to be the only other non US/Canadian couple there). Well, meeting someone else from Europe was great, it eased us in a little more to the place as we didn't feel quite so 'foreign' anymore. What was also refreshing was they were the first couple our age we'd seen. We had been worried that we'd be 15-20 years the junior of anyone else at Desire and it was a relief to hear from the Belgian couple that they knew of some other couples our age. Wonderful! As we were chatting, a few guys were doing shots off a woman's breasts (i think one of the men was her husband). We recognised her as one of the loud ones from the jacuzzi earlier, but quickly realised that ok they were a little crazy, but they were just making the most of their stay, and were nice enough. After a couple more drinks, and meeting another young couple, we were having a great time, finally feeling like we were settling in to this wild and crazy place.
Once our Belgian friends headed back to their room to prepare for dinner, we got very brave! On the jacuzzi deck were 5 large four-poster beds, draped in white. We already knew that up here was one of the few places at Desire where 'anything goes'. With little more than a look, Holly led me over to one of the beds and before long we were swept up in the moment. I don't know what it was, the alcohol, the free-spirited sexy atmosphere, the warm breeze blowing the bed canopies, but pretty soon i had Holly doggy style on the bed in full view of anyone at the bar who cared to see! I'd mentioned in an earlier post about how Holly sometimes surprises me - well consider me well and truly blown away! Only a few hours ago, Holly was upset and wanted to leave, now here she was, letting everyone know she could be as wild and loud as anyone else, especially whilst getting fucked hard in public! What a way to break ourselves in to Desire...
Thursday 28 October 2010
Desire, Cancun (Part 1)
Shortly after our trip to Munich, Holly and i were watching the TV programme 'Sexcetera' when they did a report on a couples only resort called 'Desire' in Cancun, Mexico (www.desire-resort.com). Safe to say that this piqued our interest no end! Having had time to let our first foray into sharing each other sink in, and the fire it lit in the bedroom since, we were keen to check this place out. Before we knew it we were booked for a 5 night stay, with a further 2 nights in a 'normal' hotel to wind down before heading home. Here's what we experienced...
After a long journey, we were welcomed at reception by a haven of tranquility - ice-cold flannels, flutes of champagne and warm, welcoming staff. Check in was quick, then we were moved to Javier's desk, the concierge on duty. He gave us a brief idea of what to expect at Desire, a map of the resort and who to speak to in different areas if we needed anything. Being led out onto the patio area en route to our room, Holly gripped my hand tight - hell, we were both a little scared! It was mid-afternoon, and there were several naked people around the bar. Not a shock, but still our first experience of such things. A short walk to our room via paths through some beautiful tropical fauna and there we were at the ocean...breathtaking. The doors of our ground floor room opened only several feet from the edge of the narrow beach, the heat and the noise of the ocean was already intoxicating. Hammocks strung between palm trees right along the edge of the beach just added to the sense of arriving in paradise.
Once settled into the beautiful room, we were eager to explore. So, back the way we came to the main patio area behind reception. There were lots of seats, swinging beds (in more ways than one, yes..they were swinging on ropes), a bar, and a cute little padded 'snug' area. Beyond this area, paths through more tropical trees took us to the pool - nice enough, lots of topless and naked people sunbathing and floating around, all very relaxed. Beside the pool was another bar and buffet lunch area. Without speaking, we wandered on, hand in hand, looped back past the main restaurant building (3 in one building) and eventually found the steps leading to somewhere we'd been keen to investigate since Sexcetera - the rooftop jazuzzi deck. Well, i don't think anything could've prepared us for what we found up there, especially after the tranquility of the rest of the resort. The HUGE jacuzzi was filled with at least 20 people, all completely naked, and loud. Man, were they loud, like kids on spring break loud!!
We quickly found 2 stools on the 'dry side' of the bar (other half served the jacuzzi) and took stock of our surroundings. Every woman in the jacuzzi appeared to be 45+, tall and blonde with huge fake breasts. The people in around the jacuzzi took ostentation to a new level, and i gotta tell you, it was damn intimidating having just arrived less than an hour ago. We downed our drinks and retreated back to our room, not really knowing how being ourselves here was going to fit. Taking a hammock each outside our room, it was clear very quickly that Holly was a little upset. The culture shock of seeing so much nudity & frolicking frightened the life out of Holly and brought out her timid side. She wanted to go home, this place was not for her! After chatting in the room, we decided to try and relax and not judge the place too hastily. Ready for another try? Hell yes!
After a long journey, we were welcomed at reception by a haven of tranquility - ice-cold flannels, flutes of champagne and warm, welcoming staff. Check in was quick, then we were moved to Javier's desk, the concierge on duty. He gave us a brief idea of what to expect at Desire, a map of the resort and who to speak to in different areas if we needed anything. Being led out onto the patio area en route to our room, Holly gripped my hand tight - hell, we were both a little scared! It was mid-afternoon, and there were several naked people around the bar. Not a shock, but still our first experience of such things. A short walk to our room via paths through some beautiful tropical fauna and there we were at the ocean...breathtaking. The doors of our ground floor room opened only several feet from the edge of the narrow beach, the heat and the noise of the ocean was already intoxicating. Hammocks strung between palm trees right along the edge of the beach just added to the sense of arriving in paradise.
Once settled into the beautiful room, we were eager to explore. So, back the way we came to the main patio area behind reception. There were lots of seats, swinging beds (in more ways than one, yes..they were swinging on ropes), a bar, and a cute little padded 'snug' area. Beyond this area, paths through more tropical trees took us to the pool - nice enough, lots of topless and naked people sunbathing and floating around, all very relaxed. Beside the pool was another bar and buffet lunch area. Without speaking, we wandered on, hand in hand, looped back past the main restaurant building (3 in one building) and eventually found the steps leading to somewhere we'd been keen to investigate since Sexcetera - the rooftop jazuzzi deck. Well, i don't think anything could've prepared us for what we found up there, especially after the tranquility of the rest of the resort. The HUGE jacuzzi was filled with at least 20 people, all completely naked, and loud. Man, were they loud, like kids on spring break loud!!
We quickly found 2 stools on the 'dry side' of the bar (other half served the jacuzzi) and took stock of our surroundings. Every woman in the jacuzzi appeared to be 45+, tall and blonde with huge fake breasts. The people in around the jacuzzi took ostentation to a new level, and i gotta tell you, it was damn intimidating having just arrived less than an hour ago. We downed our drinks and retreated back to our room, not really knowing how being ourselves here was going to fit. Taking a hammock each outside our room, it was clear very quickly that Holly was a little upset. The culture shock of seeing so much nudity & frolicking frightened the life out of Holly and brought out her timid side. She wanted to go home, this place was not for her! After chatting in the room, we decided to try and relax and not judge the place too hastily. Ready for another try? Hell yes!
Tuesday 14 September 2010
Burg Ibiza, Munich - continued
Well, i didn't expect to take so long to resume the account of our night at Burg Ibiza, Munich, but better late than never i suppose.
So, where were we? Ah yes, Holly was down on me in the little nook! What a strange sensation, sitting looking at people at the bar and in the lounge while Holly pleasured me. Pretty soon an overweight man walked towards us. I panicked a little, but waved him away...Holly was none the wiser.
The events of the next few hours were quite a roller-coaster. Maybe it was because neither were sure of how we felt about our experience in the room, and where our limits were. Maybe it was the overweight man who kept following us around. We wore quite a path between the bar and the rooms, back and forth, not settling at all. Everytime we went into a room and started on each other to get warmed up, the overwieght man was there! Even when we discovered the 'couples only' offshoot from one of the rooms, he stood at the velvet rope saying "please" every so often. I'm not one to have difficulty with an erection, but that just put me right off!
It was getting late now and the already low numbers were dropping. There was now only one other couple around our age - both Mediterannean looking, black hair and swarthy skin. I was keen to initiate something but Holly wasn't interested in that couple...and increasingly uninterested in anything happening. Pretty soon our frustrations and irritations came bubbling up and we started sniping at each other. Holly had lost it, wanted to leave, whereas i didn't want to give up after making the effort to come (or not come as was the case ha ha). Well, what the lady wants, the lady pretty much gets...
It was a good thing the taxi driver who took us back to our hotel didn't speak English, as when tiredness is mixed in with frustration, arguments can get pretty daft...and ours certainly did. What it did give us, though, was an opportunity for some pretty incredible make up sex. Now this is normally great as you all know, but add the knowledge of where you've just been, what you've just seen...by 7am we'd three orgasms under our belt...
So would i recommend Burg Ibiza? Definitely! On the night we visited it felt safe, relaxed and friendly. We chatted briefly to a few people, but found language a barrier. Will we go back? No doubt about it, yes - but next time we'll visit on a couples only night. We're keen to visit in the summertime so we can experience the club's gardens and pool.
So, where were we? Ah yes, Holly was down on me in the little nook! What a strange sensation, sitting looking at people at the bar and in the lounge while Holly pleasured me. Pretty soon an overweight man walked towards us. I panicked a little, but waved him away...Holly was none the wiser.
The events of the next few hours were quite a roller-coaster. Maybe it was because neither were sure of how we felt about our experience in the room, and where our limits were. Maybe it was the overweight man who kept following us around. We wore quite a path between the bar and the rooms, back and forth, not settling at all. Everytime we went into a room and started on each other to get warmed up, the overwieght man was there! Even when we discovered the 'couples only' offshoot from one of the rooms, he stood at the velvet rope saying "please" every so often. I'm not one to have difficulty with an erection, but that just put me right off!
It was getting late now and the already low numbers were dropping. There was now only one other couple around our age - both Mediterannean looking, black hair and swarthy skin. I was keen to initiate something but Holly wasn't interested in that couple...and increasingly uninterested in anything happening. Pretty soon our frustrations and irritations came bubbling up and we started sniping at each other. Holly had lost it, wanted to leave, whereas i didn't want to give up after making the effort to come (or not come as was the case ha ha). Well, what the lady wants, the lady pretty much gets...
It was a good thing the taxi driver who took us back to our hotel didn't speak English, as when tiredness is mixed in with frustration, arguments can get pretty daft...and ours certainly did. What it did give us, though, was an opportunity for some pretty incredible make up sex. Now this is normally great as you all know, but add the knowledge of where you've just been, what you've just seen...by 7am we'd three orgasms under our belt...
So would i recommend Burg Ibiza? Definitely! On the night we visited it felt safe, relaxed and friendly. We chatted briefly to a few people, but found language a barrier. Will we go back? No doubt about it, yes - but next time we'll visit on a couples only night. We're keen to visit in the summertime so we can experience the club's gardens and pool.
Sunday 16 May 2010
Burg Ibiza, Munich - our first experience
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Friday 14 May 2010
So where did it all begin?
Holly and i have always had a very energetic, passionate and imaginative sex life, and even before we were married fantasy role play and porn inspired us to new levels of desire to please each other. I remember the excitement of the first time we began to fantasize out loud about involving another couple, or man/woman in our lovemaking. From tentative beginnings, never really sure what might suddenly be 'too far' soon developed to quite detailed oral erotic masterpieces, with orgasms leaving us literally dizzy ;-)
I suppose it developed into almost an unspoken understanding that the next step might be to actually try and act out these fantasies in real life, and when earlier this year we booked a short break to Munich, Germany we had a look online to see if there might be any clubs which might pique our interest. We found one which looked interesting and agreed it might be fun to visit, but we were still understandably nervous that the reality would not live up to the fantasy. I'm probably a little more adventurous than Holly (although she often surprises me) and i was the one more keen to visit this club. As the trip got closer, the visit to the club featured more and more in our fantasy stories in bed, but i knew that in the cold light of day there was a good chance Holly wouldn't feel comfortable making the jump from fantasy to reality. I suppose the anticipation made it more exciting, and it was only really once we were in Munich that we decided to do it (after a few drinks of course :-)
Getting ready in the hotel room that evening was electric! Nervous excitement, fear, and just plain horniness - it was a heady combination, and only intensified in the taxi journey to the club, Burg Ibiza in Fürstenfeldbruck, just outside Munich. I'll share our experience inside the club in our next post...
I suppose it developed into almost an unspoken understanding that the next step might be to actually try and act out these fantasies in real life, and when earlier this year we booked a short break to Munich, Germany we had a look online to see if there might be any clubs which might pique our interest. We found one which looked interesting and agreed it might be fun to visit, but we were still understandably nervous that the reality would not live up to the fantasy. I'm probably a little more adventurous than Holly (although she often surprises me) and i was the one more keen to visit this club. As the trip got closer, the visit to the club featured more and more in our fantasy stories in bed, but i knew that in the cold light of day there was a good chance Holly wouldn't feel comfortable making the jump from fantasy to reality. I suppose the anticipation made it more exciting, and it was only really once we were in Munich that we decided to do it (after a few drinks of course :-)
Getting ready in the hotel room that evening was electric! Nervous excitement, fear, and just plain horniness - it was a heady combination, and only intensified in the taxi journey to the club, Burg Ibiza in Fürstenfeldbruck, just outside Munich. I'll share our experience inside the club in our next post...
Welcome!
Hello and welcome to our blog, where we'll share our intimate and exciting journey into the world of swinging, or 'the lifestyle' as some know it. First, let me introduce ourselves, my name is Josh. My wife Holly and i are 30-something young professionals with a passion for adventure and sexual expression. For the record, what you are about to read is 100% real, this isn't some made up fantasy. I don't know where this blog will take us, how long it will last, but what i can guarantee is that we will share our recent new experiences, and future adventures 'warts-and-all', in the hope that it demystifies the world of swinging and reassures those curious about dipping their toes into such a seemingly scary world. I hope you enjoy reading as much as we'll enjoy sharing ourselves with you....
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