Sunday 16 May 2010

Friday 14 May 2010

So where did it all begin?

Holly and i have always had a very energetic, passionate and imaginative sex life, and even before we were married fantasy role play and porn inspired us to new levels of desire to please each other. I remember the excitement of the first time we began to fantasize out loud about involving another couple, or man/woman in our lovemaking. From tentative beginnings, never really sure what might suddenly be 'too far' soon developed to quite detailed oral erotic masterpieces, with orgasms leaving us literally dizzy ;-)

I suppose it developed into almost an unspoken understanding that the next step might be to actually try and act out these fantasies in real life, and when earlier this year we booked a short break to Munich, Germany we had a look online to see if there might be any clubs which might pique our interest. We found one which looked interesting and agreed it might be fun to visit, but we were still understandably nervous that the reality would not live up to the fantasy. I'm probably a little more adventurous than Holly (although she often surprises me) and i was the one more keen to visit this club. As the trip got closer, the visit to the club featured more and more in our fantasy stories in bed, but i knew that in the cold light of day there was a good chance Holly wouldn't feel comfortable making the jump from fantasy to reality. I suppose the anticipation made it more exciting, and it was only really once we were in Munich that we decided to do it (after a few drinks of course :-)

Getting ready in the hotel room that evening was electric! Nervous excitement, fear, and just plain horniness - it was a heady combination, and only intensified in the taxi journey to the club, Burg Ibiza in Fürstenfeldbruck, just outside Munich. I'll share our experience inside the club in our next post...

Welcome!

Hello and welcome to our blog, where we'll share our intimate and exciting journey into the world of swinging, or 'the lifestyle' as some know it. First, let me introduce ourselves, my name is Josh. My wife Holly and i are 30-something young professionals with a passion for adventure and sexual expression. For the record, what you are about to read is 100% real, this isn't some made up fantasy. I don't know where this blog will take us, how long it will last, but what i can guarantee is that we will share our recent new experiences, and future adventures 'warts-and-all', in the hope that it demystifies the world of swinging and reassures those curious about dipping their toes into such a seemingly scary world. I hope you enjoy reading as much as we'll enjoy sharing ourselves with you....